Stop Telling Me to be Amazing

Gina Butz expectations, grace, identity 4 Comments

stop telling me to be amazing

I saw a shirt at Old Navy during the holidays that said, “Be Amazing.”

It felt like way too much pressure.

It might have felt that way because I was in the middle of power Christmas shopping that should have been spread out reasonably over 5 days, but had been crammed into one due to sickness. That same sickness forced me to bow out of a speaking engagement and left my house a bit of a disaster (tip: if you keep wearing shoes in the house, you don’t feel all the stuff you haven’t swept off the floors). I was just proud to be upright and not in yoga pants.

It feels like that again today, on day 15 of my husband’s 16 day trip around the world (Lord, have mercy) when I’m just happy that I am awake and communicative without the help of legal stimulants.  We’ve only eaten 2 frozen pizzas and a deli chicken. This I call victory.

It seems everywhere we look, we’re being told we can do it. We can be amazing, and awesome, and over the top sparkling, beautiful, jaw dropping. Ordinary is for suckers. Lazy people. Those who don’t really care, who don’t want their lives to count. I shouldn’t just be surviving while my husband is gone; I should be thriving. 

And true, we have our moments – all of us do. We have shining moments when we reflect the glory of God in exhibiting the beauty He’s created in us. We have red letter days. We do.

But living there? Gosh it’s exhausting. And truthfully, I don’t think it’s what the world needs.

What the world needs is not more amazing. It needs people who are living and loving faithfully, authentically, with hope and perseverance and grace. People who have shining moments and messy moments and are ok with all of them. I think this is what our souls need too – we need the freedom to be who we are.

The world needs people who get up each day and choose to live the ordinary moments with trust that even this is significant. We need people who accept who they are, with all their good and bad, beautiful and messy, all together. People who believe it’s all worth offering, and then offer it.

We are people who were created for great works, but also for ordinary ones. We are meant to have places where we amaze and other places where we can’t. There’s nothing wrong with not being incredible at every moment. It’s called being human.

So please. Stop telling me to be amazing. Tell me just to be me, and I will gladly oblige.

 

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Comments 4

  1. Beautifully expressed truth and encouragement, Gina. As a woman with the “achiever” strength, this post allows me a very deep, long breath of fresh air. Thanks.

    1. So glad it blessed you Terry – yes, I need to remind the achiever in me that life doesn’t always have to be lived at 100%. 🙂

  2. A-MEN! and Amen!!

    Just yesterday I was thinking of the casting crowns song (which I love) that says “we were made to thrive.” We’re kind of in a season of not thriving and I asked Craig “Do you think that’s true? Are we supposed to thrive? Is it even possible?” There’s definitely a pressure to do more than just survive.

    It’s been weighing on my heart recently. So much so that I actually broke down and wrote a post about it at https://cunninghamtwo.wordpress.com/. (The first one in a long long time.)

    Thanks for sharing!

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